Frightening Messages You Didn’t Mean to Send
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You’re having what you consider to be a pretty important conversation over dinner.
Excellent. In fact perfect. White candles…just lit, white wine, a few lillies. You look good.
Everything is running smoothly this evening. You couldn’t have asked for better. The new suit fits particularly well and the color, much to your surprise, worked.
You’ve been talking for what seems like 5 minutes. You got on a roll and stayed there. You painted a vivid picture and you can tell she is there.
She’s sitting right by you and she goes to give you a kiss. Excellent. She smiles and returns to her wine then becomes completely unaware that she is fixing her hair.
You unconsciously mirror her behavior.
You don’t even think about it because EVERYTHING is going so perfectly tonight! You smooth your hair.
She consciously recognizes that primping and for an unknown reason she INSTANTLY feels uncomfortable and a little nervous.
Inside of your mind you are playing with how to phrase the BIG QUESTION. Then you just say it. How could it go wrong?!?!
“I think we should go for it.”
You smile a deep heartfelt genuine smile.
She instantly thinks, NO WAY!
It’s out of nowhere and she has no idea why she feels that way. She’s a little surprised, but she has come to trust her gut on all things.
She states the response we all say when we are fearful and know we probably shouldn’t be.
“Let me think about it.”
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About Kevin Hogan
Kevin Hogan is a star maker. He’s a dynamic, well-known international public speaker, consultant, and corporate trainer. Kevin Hogan has trained persuasion, sales and marketing skills to leaders in the government of Poland, employees from Mutual of Omaha, Novazymes, Madden Media, Boeing, Microsoft, FM World, Brian Tracy International, Starbucks, Cargill, Pillsbury, Carlson Companies, Fortis Insurance, Maserati, Great Clips, the State of Minnesota, 3M, The United States Postal Service, The Million Dollar Round Table and numerous other Fortune 500 companies. His 24 books have been translated into 43 languages all around the world.